Sherry always wanted to do the right thing, to always be fair.  So she avidly followed the latest, supposedly-scientific research studies and the latest experts.  She asked everyone she knew for their opinions and even consulted psychics.

The result was that she never had any consistency; she was constantly changing direction.  She also felt duped when the latest study and the latest expert advice didn’t work or when her life and children were different from the normal people in the studies.

Mostly, Sherry felt scared and panicked.  She felt that disaster was just around the corner if she didn’t get everything just right.  She was riddled with negativity self-doubt, and had no self-esteem or confidence in her own judgment.  She hardly even knew her own judgment.  She had turned into a self-bully.

Sherry was a victim of experts.

Experts are all around us.  They want you to listen and they want you to believe that the latest studies give the right answers.  They want you to believe that you can’t figure things out yourself.

Don’t be a victim of supposedly-scientific studies and of experts.

Find someone who puts you in touch with your own experience, observations and accurate intuition.  Find someone who connects you with your strength, courage and determination.

The best way to learn how to stop being a victim of experts and supposedly-scientific studies is to hire Dr. Ben for personalized coaching and counseling so you can:

  1. Develop the strength, courage, will and determination to be and to act your best resolutely, diligently and effectively.
  2. Develop a plan and master the skills necessary to deal with the specific situation you’re in.

Read my new ebook, “How to Stop Sneaky Bullies.”  Also, since all tactics depend on the situation, call me at 1-877-8Bullies for expert coaching by phone or Skype.

AuthorBen Leichtling