I’ve added a new video to my YouTube channel. It’s a 5 minute clip on how to Stop Emotional Intimidators, Manipulators and Secret Narcissists.
We face these bullies everywhere – husbands and wives, friends, toxic parents, toxic adult children, and at work. Overt intimidators, manipulators and narcissists are easy to recognize; they’re loud, obnoxious, threatening; in your face. Sneaky intimidators, manipulators and narcissists are harder to recognize – but you already know how. When you pay attention and see clearly what’s going on, you can learn to stop them.
First, your intuition recognizes that you’ve just be hit, stabbed, intimidated or manipulated. Pay attention to that feeling; honor it. Don’t talk yourself out of it because your mind can’t figure out what happened or you can’t prove it in court. Trust your gut; act on its accurate message.
Second, learn to recognize how sneaky bullies, and emotional intimidators and manipulators attack you. They want to control your life. They always have good reasons and justifications why their way is best. With them, you always feel defensive; you try to explain or justify yourself. You try to prove you’re a good person; you mean well. But sneaky manipulators and intimidators are never convinced.
Of course, there are many complications depending on your situation. The best way to learn how to take power in your life and to be the person you want to be is to hire Dr. Ben for personalized coaching and counseling so you can:
- Develop the strength, courage, will and determination to be and to act your best resolutely, diligently and effectively.
- Develop a plan and master the skills necessary to create the life your spirit has always hungered for.
Since all tactics depend on the situation, call me at 1-877-8Bullies for expert counseling and coaching by phone or Skype.