I’ve added a new video to my YouTube channel.  It’s a 5 minute clip on how to end personal relationships with narcissistic control freaks.

Stop covert, sneaky bullies and narcissistic, control freaks in personal relationships.  Overt bullies are easy to recognize; they’re loud, obnoxious, threatening and in your face.  Sneaky, stealthy bullies are harder to recognize but there are seven early warning signs of bullying controllers.

You’re never going to change them.  They’re bullying, control-freaks.  Can you talk a hungry wolf out of eating you because you’re a vegetarian?  You’ll never be good enough for them.  You can’t deserve or earn good behavior from a narcissistic, toxic, control freak.

Ignore your self-bullying; that little voice that doesn’t like you, that tells you that the narcissistic control-freak might be right or that you must rescue or save them.  Trust your own gut.  Don’t get sucked in, like you would into a black hole.

If we don’t stop bullies, they’ll think we’re easy prey.  Like sharks, they’ll just go after us more.  What’s the price of tolerating bullies?  Slow erosion of our souls!

Of course, there are many complications depending on your situationThe best way to learn how to take power in your life and to be the person you want to be is to hire Dr. Ben for personalized coaching and counseling so you can:

  1. Develop the strength, courage, will and determination to be and to act your best resolutely, diligently and effectively.
  2. Develop a plan and master the skills necessary to create the life your spirit has always hungered for.

Since all tactics depend on the situation, call me at 1-877-8Bullies for expert counseling and coaching by phone or Skype.

AuthorBen Leichtling