No matter who’s bullying you, no matter how painful, no matter who won’t listen and help, no matter how hopeless the future seems, no matter how helpless you feel, never give up hope.

Hope keeps our spirits alive, hope keeps us fighting on, hope keeps our spirits strong until, miraculously, we can get free.  Hope is real.

Don’t believe them when they try to take your hope away.  Don’t believe them when they say you’re too dumb or ugly or weak or unlovable to get free and to survive and to thrive.  Don’t believe them when they say it’s your fault; you should feel guilt and shame.  Don’t believe them when they say it’s too hard.  They’re wrong.

Don’t believe yourself when that negative, bullying, abusive voice they tried to plant in your head tells you how bad you are or that you’re too weak to resist.  That voice is trying to protect you from further pain but it’s saying the wrong things.  Uproot that poison ivy.  It’s wrong.

Don’t be crushed.  You can overcome control and putdowns and bullying and abuse.  You can get the money and allies you need.  You can get free.  You can start a new life.  You can create a wonderful life.  Have hope.

You can become a different person.  You can learn to recognize the Early Warning Signs of bullies and stop or avoid them.  You can learn to protect and defend yourself.  You can get help.

History is not destiny.

The best way to create a wonderful life is to hire Dr. Ben for personalized coaching and counseling so you can:

  1. Develop the strength, courage, will and determination to be and to act your best resolutely, diligently and effectively.
  2. Develop a plan and master the skills necessary to deal with the specific situation you’re in.

Since all tactics depend on the situation, call me at 1-877-8Bullies for expert coaching by phone or Skype.


AuthorBen Leichtling